First of all, I'm glad you actually read my blog and Thanks! You did not chuck me off from your blog list .. and if you want to do so after this, I've no offense.
I feel so undeserved and even innocent after reading your blog this evening, I have too much to say, to defend but I know it's worthless at the end of the day.
Anyway ...
- Sorry if I misunderstood that you asked your elderly to suck balls, but the fact that you removed us is really hurting me! I understand your purpose of making yourself invisible in FB but it doesn't mean anything to us. Just for your info, we never bitch about your misbehavior to anyone and we never intend to tell your dad about those silly things you've done. In fact, I actually stop myself & my mum from interfering any of your matter ever since you left to KL. I do not know how did the news spread over. Don't think other people in this world are blind and only us view your FB, there are many other people saw it and came to ask us about it coz they thought we're still in good term.
- If you really love your dad, you would not do things you're not supposed to do behind him and thought that no one will ever inform him about it. You should act like a good girl, not for your dad, but for yourself.
- If you want to put the blame on us for all the complaints you've got from home and that's why you've decided to keep a distance with us on FB. Sorry, you're wrong. We do read your FB because it's there for us to read but we never bring it up nor make fun of it with other people including your family. If we can read, any other people can read it too, you might as well remove everyone from your list.
- Again, I've gone through your stage of life now. I totally understand it's not easy to be there. I know that place so well, I know the people in Sunway so well, I know everything and I just hope to enlighten you but you refuse to listen and intelligently found yourself super lot excuses to stay in Sunway.
- I feel absolutely guiltless on the scholarship stuffs! If you have your plan and reason for not wanting to study in Multimedia University, why can't you explain? Isn't it simple, just a call or sms will do? At least the misunderstanding would have lessen if you could tell us earlier! Haven't we told you, my cousin Michelle is studying there and she has promised to take care of you there? So do you think accommodation & transportation will be a problem here? We didn't know you've got scholarship or loan, our purpose for suggesting Multimedia University to you is to lessen your dad's burden and if we know you managed to get scholarship, I don't see any point on shifting you from Sunway to Cyberjaya. You seriously need to brush up your communication skills!
- I don't know how & what did the adults at home tell you about us. I wish it doesn't go so bad as I still treat them as my family. I'm sad & mad to see my mum feeling so helpless and wondering how did all these misunderstandings come about, we wanted to explain & clarify, trying to patch back the relationship but again ... they refused to accept and the only thing we can do is 'keep our mouth shut & own our own business', which we've been practicing it throughout the past few months.
BUT
Shits still strike us even we've shut our mouth!
Why?
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Shits still strike us even we've shut our mouth!
Why?
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1 comment:
I don't mean to fight with you here, but just a reminder to you (in case you forgot):-
You wrote a long letter to Sam Yee Poh sometime around November last year (in case you need prove, she still keep that letter), asking her assistance to discuss with your parents and aunties that you wanna quit Senior 3 in Tshung Tsin. Without second thought, she did so by gathered all family members at home and started to explain to them why you wanna quit Senior 3. At last, you quit Tshung Tsin successfully. By right, she shall automatically bears the responsibility on your future studies because if anything goes wrong (touch wood), she'll be the one who get blame. Thus, she thinks she should guide you on whatsoever things you do and therefore told you to check out a better university which is famous in your interest of studies (Graphic Design). However, in return, she gets:-
- all sorts of blames / misunderstandings from the family and you
- no respect from you, not even a call or sms to her to say goodbye before you leave. we don’t even know you were leaving until I saw your pictures in FB, how sad?
- a remove from FB to keep a distance (forever & ever?)
Don’t you think you’re a bit 过桥抽板? Now you get it why we think you’re so ungrateful?
p/s: We have never met up or communicated with your parents + your aunties since CNY (million thanks to you for the misunderstandings). So, don’t you assume we’re the one who gossiped your silly stuffs to them, we do not have that time and don’t see any point of doing it （损人不利己的事情，做了也费劲）. In fact, we signed in FB not because of you, because we have so many friends to keep in touch with.
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